Yes, you heard it right! In the era of endless reels and constant notifications, being truly present is becoming a rare and difficult art.
Most people either dwell on the past or worry about the future—rarely taking time to enjoy what they already have in the moment. But here’s the truth: if you’re not paying attention to what’s happening around you right now, you might miss the bus—the one full of learning, relationship-building, family moments, self-growth, and so much more.
When you’re fully present:
You retain conversations more easily You respond better to what’s happening around you You’re able to take timely and impactful actions
Let me share an example:
Mr. X (a Head of Department) was attending a two-day strategy event at the company headquarters in Delhi, alongside other senior leaders and key employees. While the CEO was sharing the vision and expectations for the new year, Mr. X was mentally checking the clock, waiting for lunch. He stayed quiet throughout the sessions, missed opportunities to ask questions or engage, and simply waited for the day to end so he could attend the evening party.
Even during the celebration, he chose to sit in a corner, disconnected from the energy around him.
So, was Mr. X really present?
He showed up physically, but mentally—he was elsewhere. How can someone like that truly absorb the leadership message, align with company goals, and later communicate it meaningfully to their team?
The same thing happens at home.
We may be sitting with our spouse or children, but mentally we’re still at work—responding to emails, worrying about deadlines, or replaying the day’s meetings. And once again, we miss the bus. We lose the magic of small moments that matter the most.
I’m also learning this art of being present. But let me tell you—the more you practice, the more you enjoy, and the more effective you become.
What’s your take on staying present in this fast-paced world?
